To find a therapist, visit www.therapists.com or http://therapists.psychologytoday.com/rms/?gclid=CLLtwfaC8bYCFUNlMgodAWIAhw.
Insurance-friendly and sliding fee therapy in Chicago & North Shore: www.urbanbalance.com
There are Community Mental Health Centers and social services agencies that provide counseling services on a sliding fee or even for free. In Chicago, contact http://www.family-institute.org/therapy-counseling.