I saw the video from Greg Baugues and it really meant a lot for me.
I have been diagnosed with depression now, and I probably also have bipolar 2 (family, doctors have suggested it, never really believed it) My grandmother had bipolar 1 in a bad way, and I am not like that, so it has been really hard to accept, she committed suicide)
I recognised a lot from the video, I switch jobs every second year, started programming when I was 8, did not finish my master, but also have worked for some top companies, and have done a good job there. I do not want to drag people down with me, so I try my best to hide my condition. I really work best under extreme stress, and with work weeks above 60 hours, since I do not have time to think about anything else than work. I really like startups, I guess since I do not worry so much about risk. I have never cared too much about money, usually I have been able to fix last months overspending when the new salary arrives (it is usually quite high).
I always have had a bit of ups and downs, but I have a lot of experience so I can float on that, and when I am good I actually am smart.
Sometimes I quit the jobs because I feel too smart for the place, sometimes because I feel too stupid, I usually work in really high pressure places, so till about a year ago it was easy for me to find some external factors to blame when I left, unreasonable people at work, injustice and so on, so it has taken me a long time to realize that I actually had a problem.
Last year I took a job that should have been really easy for me, usually my work is a lot harder, and it was really flexible, but it turned out a lot worse, was not able to do simple things, could not go to work, stopped opening mail and paying bills, and I had nothing else to blame than myself. I quit this job a couple of months ago. I owe quite a lot of money now, but it should be manageable.
The cycles between ok and not ok are getting shorter, and the bad periods are worse. I sleep a lot or not at all. I very often have a guilty conscience for the things I should have done.
I did receive help from doctors and family and friends, and I am grateful for it.
After seeing the video I think I will try to get some more help.
PS. I am actually ok now, doing a bit of consultancy stuff, will start to pay back the money I owe, except for a few days this week things are really fantastic (as long as it lasts).
thanks